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Here are the top 5 language land mines that can blow up your sale

Beware these words and phrases


As Mae West so aptly put it, "It's not what I say, but how I say it." Have you ever stopped to think if some of the words and phrases you use may be preventing prospects from buying your products or services? 

Some everyday language may seem harmless, but at a subconscious level, it might be preventing prospects from doing business with you. These common words are either deal sealers or deal stealers.

“Watch your language.”  I heard my parents use this phrase when I used unacceptable language. Even as adults this message still applies. As business owners and sales people, we should always be “watching our language” in a sales situation. By carefully choosing the right words at the right time can mean the difference of sale or no sale, deal or no deal.

To become a lean, mean, selling machine means ridding yourself of the words and phrases that repel buyers. It means freeing yourself of the language that diminishes your power and decreases your credibility. Start speaking the language of sales success.

I know that I have said some stupid things on a sales call; sometimes subtle and sometimes overt. I now watch my language and train others to watch theirs as well.

The following language and word land mines must be banned from your sales vocabulary. The next time one of these top statements start to come out of your mouth, stop, bite your tongue and find something better to say.

1.) “Did I catch you at a good time?” – These days there’s no such thing as a good time to talk. The only way there will ever be a good time is when you say something relevant that piques customer’s interest. Otherwise, you will be met with a “no this is not a good time to talk.” Get in their world, know their issues and speak to their problems. Then it will always be a good time to talk.

2.) “I know you’re busy so I won’t take up much of your time.” – Yes you will. You already wasted their time with that line. You can have all the time in the world if you’re taking about their issues and problems instead of pushing your products and solutions. They may be busy but I bet they will be willing for you to take their time if you are fixing their problems.

3.) “In my opinion” – Most of the time your opinion isn’t necessary in a sales situation. Unless people ask for it, don’t give it. Sure, you can make recommendations and offer suggestions but never offer your opinion unless one is solicited. A better way of getting permission to give advice is to say something like, “Many of my clients have encountered something similar. Are you interested in the way we handled it?”

4.) “Trust me or to be honest with you”– Those are real deal killers. Statements like that give people the impression that you haven’t been completely upfront or you have something to hide. When you use phrases like that it sends a message that you’re trying to convince your customer instead of letting them discover why you’re the best option. Why should you have to tell someone to trust you or that you’re being honest. Start by being honest and displaying trust.

5.) “I’m not trying to sell you anything.” – Then what are you calling them? That sounds phony and tacky and will result in a lost sale. Pick up the phone, have a purpose, craft a great message and then you may be able to get to the next step and secure a meeting.

Always be searching for better ways to say things in the sales conversation. This bad language is a surefire way to annoy your prospect and potentially lose a sale. Watching your language will require effort on your part to ensure you are not using words and phrases that turn buyers off and lead to another lost sale.

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Liz Wendling

Liz Wendling is a nationally recognized business consultant, sales strategist and emotional intelligence coach. Straightforward, practical and sassy, Liz’s innate gift is helping professionals transform their sales approach and evolve their sales strategies. Liz shows people how to discover their sales comfort zone and master the skill that pays you and your business forever.

Liz believes people need to stop following the masses and start standing out and differentiating themselves. Her super powers are designing customized solutions that deliver outstanding results. She enjoys working with professionals who are committed to kicking up the dust, rattling some chains and rocking the foundation of their business.

Go to: www.lizwendling.com or email Liz@lizwendling.com

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