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Posted: May 02, 2012

Seeing life through my own tattoos

Our strongest opinions were inked in our youth

David Sneed

If I were in politics, reporters would have a field day. “I see, Mr Sneed, that you support restricting payment for dental losses - so why is it that in 1975 you left three molars under your pillow and collected $1.50?”

They got me. I did used to believe in a tiny winged woman who paid me to lose teeth.

Here is a partial list of other things I’ve believed at some point:

  • Santa Clause is real (When I was 9)
  • I know everything about driving  (16)
  • I know everything about women  (18)
  • Might makes right (20)
  • Homosexuals are going to hell (22)
  • Anyone can get ahead if they try hard enough (24)
  • Politicians are selfless (25)
  • It matters what wine you drink with pork (28)
  • America is a Plutocracy (40)
  • I know nothing about women (42)

Some I still believe, and some are complete nonsense, but at the time I knew each to be true as the sun setting in the west. There’s a booming tattoo removal industry for a reason. When you’re 22, you’re sure that a snake-wrapped skull will always look good on your forearm. It won’t, but you don’t know that yet.

Our strongest opinions also were inked sometime in our youth, and we stick to them only because they stick to us. My belief in the destiny of gay people wasn’t one I chose - I learned it before I could think for myself. Just like I learned that Kennedy was killed by the mafia, and the government leaked Area 51’s location so that no one would think to look for Area 52 (which is still true – probably.)

In a time when Left is Left, Right is Right, and never the twain shall meet, I live right on the border. I believe I’ve finally reached a point where I’m not a zealot for anyone’s cause. I see merits to the views of the right, and I get where the left is coming from, too. But even when I can’t grasp why you think what you do, I know it isn’t because you’re always wrong - it’s because I filter what you’re saying through my own tattoos.

As I get older, I find I don’t want to associate with people who are fervent about politics - especially those rabid types who were born into a party and, by God, they’ll die in it.  It makes me think they haven’t learned anything about life.  And that’s a shame.

I see how one can become xenophobic, or homophobic, or Islamaphobic. I understand the fear of God and the freedom of atheism. I’ve felt crushed dreams and the desire to blame.  I understand vegans and cattlemen, global warming and SUVs. 

No one knows the right answer, so the best we can hope for are politicians who understand that the best decision they can make, the best policy they can promulgate, is one which is easy to correct when a better way is found. We should hope for a leader who is smarter today than he was yesterday, and one who’s willing to change his beliefs when new information is learned.

Anyone who wants to change my mind on a political issue would do well to create a rational, calm argument – and present it gently. Rabble rousers, fanatics and those who think my views will be reversed by force and volume are wasting their time.

 

 

 

 

 

 

David Sneed is the owner of Alpine Fence Company,and the author of" Everyone Has A Boss– The Two Hour Guide to Being the Most Valuable Employee at Any Company." As a Marine, father, employee and boss, David has learned how to help others succeed. He teaches the benefits of a strong work ethic to entry and mid-level employees. Contact him at  David@EveryoneHasABoss.com

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Readers Respond

I'll check it out right away, David. By Marcia Noyes on 2012 05 02
You're very kind, Marcia. And I'll get my byline changed, Everyone Has a Boss is available on Amazon - where it's been well reviewed. By David on 2012 05 02
WOW, David. Your insight is powerful. I enjoyed the way you have taken two incongruent images and mixed them to create some powerful prose here. Makes me want to know you and hear more of your ideas, so I know that your forthcoming book will be an absolute winner. By Marcia Noyes on 2012 05 02
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